AIO to this new normal for “now”dating ?

I (26) F, invited a man (25) M, I had met off Hinge to come hangout at my house and I would makiendinner and watch movies. We had been talking a few days and I actually ended up unfriending on Snapchat (as we started to talk their and not Hinge) and I pretty much told him hey I know what I’m looking for and you just didn’t text back all day after making plans with me and I’m good! Thank you though and that was it. I don’t like to block/ghost people without warning. So basically I forgot about him until maybe the next day when I opened the app and ot said he had messaged me though there. (As I did not unmatch with him yet I could still see the unread message from him) he wrote me this- you can read below. He asked for a second chance and I gave it to him- and I’m glad I glad I did honestly! It was truly a great time. But after he got to my house it was an instant connection. We talked for maybe 4 hours before we started doing ANYTHING sexual. He did eventually stay the night with me because a lot of the bridges/roads were crossed off for being to cold, bellowing freezing temps. So he couldn’t really get home anyways- annnnddd it was going SUPER well. Anyways- 2nd day rolls around. made him breakfast We’re kissing, cuddling, talking, playing cod, it’s so good. And then after he buys dinner for us and gets done kissing me he tell me he needs to grab his contact solution from the car. Now mind you he has already gone to grab stuff from the car and came back. This wasn’t weird- but my grandpa called as he was leaving to go outside I answered it. He left. And NEVER came back… he left his shoes in the entry way and left his apple jelly and pb he brought in earlier. No goodbyes. No hey I’m going home- and it was cold out, black ice on roads mind you.. so he dipped under severe conditions 😅 I just felt so confused but also that’s dating apps i guess ? Just makes me upset cause I gave him a second chance- just to go like that. Is this normal for most guys nowadays?