Parenting advice from confident, empowered women

This question is for the women who grew up feeling empowered, loved, and supported, who feel confident in themselves& their own skins. Who are perfectly capable of being independent, who see everybody as equals, and believe in basic human rights for all. From all socio-economic backgrounds.

What did your parent(or parents, or teacher, etc) do or say, that you feel made a lasting impact?

Having not grown up with the best examples, and being raised to see flaws in myself&everyone else, I really want to spare my daughter the self image issues, and teach her to be a kind&compassionate human being, something that took me far longer than it should. I want her to know that she can do and be whatever she wants to be, to have a good work ethic, good morals, resilience, and emotional maturity. And I want her to know that no matter what, I love and support her through good and bad, that I will always be there for her. I want to give her everything I desperately wanted as a child (and adult).

So what all do you recommend, big or small?

ETA: anyone who grew up in a less than ideal environment, but learned from their parent's mistakes, your view is just as important to this conversation!