Dead Bedroom because of wrong timing

Hi all

Me 47F and husband 52M. Both want to have intimate time together. I would prefer it in the night while husband says he is too tired in the night and wants to sleep. He sometimes initiates in the morning when I am still very sleepy. He said Sometimes I was so fast asleep that he gives up. Or he roused me from deep sleep and I just wanted to go back to sleep. Sometimes I don’t even know he tried anything. Other time I am just not in the mood

Last time happen couple of months ago during daytime when kids were out

Is anyone else in similar boat?