My hair loss got so bad in 2 years

Nothing I do works. I tried couple of endocrinologists and gynos to prescribe me with fin or dut but they all said no due to the chance of me becoming pregnant inthe future (although I don’t want to) I tried vitamin supplements (1 year), spiro 50 mg for (9 months), rosemary oil (I have shed like crazy with no improvement), hormonal birth control pills (caused extreme weight gain and inflammation so I had to stop). Nothing is working. My scalp gets oily the next day. It became impossible to deal with washing every other day. I have no access to oral minox in my country. I am at the end. I dont know what to do anymore. (33 f)