Gaslighting

So, I recently got out of this toxic relationship I had for the better part of last year and I’m feeling very liberated . I’m partly to blame because despite the red flags I still stayed, with the biggest 🚩 being gaslit all the time. One time I had a yeast infection and when I wanted to go get medication and possibly see a gynecologist since I have an IUCD , I was told “my girlfriend shouldn’t go to one because I heard that they do crazy things to women”. You know I’ve just been wondering who even feeds these men with such nonsense ! Then another time I was on my periods and I am not one to have sex when I’m 🩸, just tell me why in between having sore boobs and cramps this guy still wanted to get some, when I refused he kept telling me I don’t love him. Anyway baby girl, I hope you love yourself enough to choose a man who is patient with you, a man who respects both your body and his body, a man who has self control, a man who is kind to your soul and most important a man who can articulate themselves well. I can’t stress enough on this