My state of mind when it comes to mmos

I love mmos I really do, but my biggest issue right now is time and also just absolutely having no friends to play with, specifically the MMOs I wanna play. And unfortunately MMOs aren't as social as they once was so finding friends in game isn't that easy either, specially when there's not a bunch of new people in the certain ones I wanna play.

How do you guys get over these restraints?

I really wanna play but it's just, ugh?