Did anyone else learn that their "strengths" created a lot of problems in their life? These are my weaknesses not strengths...

Connectednes (Relationship Building)

Intellection (Strategic Thinking)

Deliberative (Executing)

Discipline (Executing)

Restorative (Executing)

Those are my top 5 (I didn't pay an extra $50), and these "strengths" have created so many problems for me. For example, my mother always rejected and bullied me because I'm a deep thinker. It takes time for me to make decisions and process things in general because I think deeper and therefore slower than most people. And while I enjoy problem solving and introspecting, it's emotionally exhausting because of the amount of effort I need to put into it. I guess this means that I need to set boundaries with myself and focus on efficiency... I just wish I knew what my actual strengths were. I wish my strengths didn't exhaust me.

e: ended up paying for the 34, so here's my top 10. relationships and influence are my bottom 20. but i'm working on it.

1- Connectedness

2- Intellection

3- Deliberative

4- Discipline

5- Restorative

6- Strategic

7- Learner

8- Analytical

9- Belief

10- Input