Child labels are the downfall
I think that a lot of the reason for transgender healthcare being so hard to access is because tucutes keep labelling themselves as trans BOYS and not trans MEN. Given that the main argument for transphobes is the allowing children to medically transition, these more childlike labels really do not help us, not to mention encouraging fetishisation.
Plus the trenders trying to identify as trans femboys or whatever but that’s discussed a lot on here anyways lol