Vent :P (mention of s3xual harassment)

There's this boy at my school who had a class w me last trimester, and during that time he'd be really touchy. It started out as just shoulder pats, but became shoulder rubs and then back rubs, up under my bra straps. I was genuinely disgusted and wanted it to stop so bad, but being a people pleaser I could never bring myself to tell him that. My friends noticed and shared my disgust luckily, and we told administrators and he got told to stop. That crisis was averted, but I still see him in the halls before and after school and we talk. I try to be civil but he makes me so genuinely uncomfortable with the way he acts. I don't want to interact with him anymore, but since he's technically not doing anything, I can't just tell him that I don't want to talk to him. And I know some people will say, "yes you can, just do it", but understand that things like this are really hard for me to do.

In addition, another one of my friends grabbed my ass today, which normally I'd be a little uncomfortable with, but let slide. But she did it when my back was turned and I had no idea she was approaching. I don't like being surprised or startled, especially in this sexual manner, and it caused me to partially regress. I've made it clear to her that I'm not interested in her romantically, but she only barely respects that. I don't want to be her friend anymore, because she's mentally unstable on so many levels. She does weed, vaping, and wants to do heroine (she won't shut up about it). I don't want to do drugs like this, and I don't want her to peer pressure me into doing so. I've tried to help her and support her, but she's so mentally ill there's nothing I can do. She doesn't want help, and you can't help someone who doesn't want it. I'm tempted to stop trying altogether.

Tysm if you read this all, I don't have anyone irl I can vent to atm so it means the world with me ❤️❤️