Why does everyone believe the bible more than any other book? It’s just a damn fantasy someone wrote 4000 years ago, get over it

Just why? There’s a ton of books out there that don’t hate women and LGBTQ people! Why not believe one of them? Life is tough, so if believing in one of these fairy tales makes it easier, go for it! The bible is just a book that someone wrote to control people. Think about it. Someone wanted male dominance, and this is how they achieve it.