I hate Lucy

Here me out okay

I actually hate Lucy’s character

She always states time and time again, that she wants to do more things that make her feel uncomfortable to help with her social anxiety etc. she says this ALL the time.

Don’t get me wrong social anxiety is awful and I understand it well

HOWEVER

She treats Raj like crap, the whole time, he’s more supportive with her needs then she is with his and she puts blame on him for making her feel uncomfortable or making her do things that make her uncomfortable. YET THATS WHAT SHE WANTS TO DO!

And what annoys me the most is when raj has his exes around to find out “what’s wrong with him” to better himself, she says he forced her into uncomfortable situations

I hate that because she constantly wanted to do things that make her uncomfortable and she uses her social anxiety sob story to make it that raj forced her, raj barely forced much on her at all, raj was encouraging her and she bailed because of her anxiety (which is far) but she can’t say he forced. Like the crab cake scene he was actually trying to encourage, not force and she bailed (because yes it put her on the spot but that’s actually how things happen in life, on the spot)

She was always about her and he never really cared about rajs feelings or what her actions affected him. She doesn’t really show any remorse and honestly she doesn’t deserve to say he was the “bad” one of the relationship. She was in my opinion and it irritates me on so many levels

Again I do understand social anxiety, I have social anxiety, I have to force myself to go out with my friends all the time because of bullying when I was younger etc I have the fear no one will ever show. So I understand but she really just next level self centred and only about her needs to be honest